Dear 2024,
You have been a whirlwind, haven’t you? You stormed in with chaos, leaving no corner of my life untouched. It felt like an unrelenting spiral at times—blow after blow, heartbreak after heartbreak. Yet, as I stand here reflecting on this year, I cannot help but acknowledge the depth of your lessons. You tested me, you stretched me, and yes, you almost broke me—but I’m still here.
For every moment of despair, for every tear shed in defeat, for every sleepless night filled with anxiety—you gave me a reason to fight. Without the lows, I wouldn’t know the incredible highs of joy, peace, triumph, and love. You were a teacher, 2024, and I am grateful for the lessons I absolutely needed to learn.
Here’s what you’ve taught me:
Boundaries:
This year, I learned the art of protecting my peace. Boundaries are not walls—they’re shields. Whether in friendships, family ties, or romantic relationships, I’ve realized I can no longer tolerate what triggers my trauma. Boundaries are my affirmation of self-worth, and I’m not apologizing for them anymore.
Communication:
I’ve struggled with vulnerability, preferring to express myself in writing rather than speaking aloud. But this year taught me that words spoken at the right time can bridge misunderstandings and heal wounds. Silence often breeds chaos, but open, honest communication can change everything.
Worthiness:
Oh, the things I’ve tolerated in the past. This year, I finally embraced the truth: I am worthy of love, respect, and joy. Settling is no longer an option.
Self-Care:
2024, you drained me. You stressed me out beyond measure. But you also opened my eyes. I’ve spent far too long pouring into others while neglecting myself. That stops now. Come 2025, it’s me, myself, and I. Self-care isn’t selfish—it’s survival, and I choose to prioritize myself unapologetically.
Fear:
No more. Fear has held me hostage for too long—afraid of rejection, afraid of failure, afraid of stepping into the unknown. But even Christ was rejected before His glory was revealed. Fear has no place here anymore. It’s been evicted permanently.
Love and Patience:
You reminded me that love and patience go hand in hand. Through some of the hardest lessons, I’ve learned to trust God’s timing. Love is not always easy, but it’s always worth it when guided by faith.
Clarity and Discernment:
You revealed so much. People I thought had my back showed their true colors. It hurt, but it also freed me. Sometimes, we hold on to people longer than their season in our lives. Through betrayal, I gained clarity. And with clarity, I’ve found peace.
2024, you brought immeasurable loss. I mourned my grandfather on the anniversary of my mother’s passing. Months later, I lost two aunts—one on each side of my family. These moments were dark, almost unbearable. But they reminded me of the preciousness of life and the importance of faith.
At one point, I felt so distant from God that I lost my sense of discernment, my spiritual covering. But through the storms, I found my way back to Him. I’ve discovered a wonderful church home, regained my fellowship, and realigned with my purpose.
You may have tested me, but you did not destroy me. You sharpened me. You refined me. You prepared me for what’s next.
So, as I bid you farewell, I embrace the uncertainty of tomorrow. Life will always have its ups and downs, but I’m buckled in and ready for the ride. I’m walking into 2025 stronger, wiser, and more determined than ever.
Goodbye, 2024. You will not be forgotten.
Sincerely,
Kae
Kae Jaye The Writer 